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Freedom in relationships

How free do you feel in the interaction with other people? Are you able to sense your self and show your authentic face? Or do you tend to loose yourself in relationship to others or maybe hide behind a mask?

How conscious are you of the effects of social conditioning on the freedom you experience? Do you limit yourself by always being the nice one, the strong one, the quiet one, the shy one, the .... one?

  • Are you tired of being someone you are not?
  • Do you miss the connection to your self and others?
  • Do you feel stuck in patterns or roles you play?
  • Are relationships not giving you the satisfaction you seek?
  • And are you longing for a deep connection to yourself and ease and flow in connection with others?
  • Or do you simply want to break free and give your self permission to be all of you?

The more authentic we can be, the more we can relax with other people and the more meaning, joy, depth, intimacy and fulfilment we can experience in our selves and in our relationships. Heartfelt relating then becomes a portal to our soul, to become who we are and share that with the world.

So may we connect, deeply, be with what is
and shine our light into this world!

The journey will start by getting a sense of where you are in the dance of freedom and conditioning. We will explore this theme in the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual dimensions. During the weeks we will gradually move towards more wholeness, authenticity, deep connection and intimacy.

Learning is primarily experience based. By using: Body&Mind Language (BML) interventions, posture, movement, embodiment and sharings the information that is useful for you will come to the surface through the experiences you have.

So we will not just talk about freedom in relationships, but you will be invited to experience it. Bodily experience are a prerequisite to facilitate, healing, understanding and transformation. Afterwards there is time to look at the meaning and how to translate the acquired insights into your daily life.

Wanna explore and uncover together?

The flavours I bring in

It is my intention to provide a safe space in which you can un-cover yourself and feel received as you are. Beyond the healing aspect, we will move toward more authenticity, connection and soulful living.

It is my talent to read you, to feel into you, and serve as a warm embrace, a soundboard and mirror. Where necessary I will challenge you, play with you or reflect back what I see.

Of course I will use my knowledge and skills as a certified osteopath, BML coach, dancer, psycho-somatic specialist and pilates trainer.

Moreover I have 40+ years of life experience and 20+ years of working with people both individually as well as in groups.

And beyond all of that, I am on my journey too, opening up to the full expression of my being.


  • Location: Sutan Sjahrirstraat 27, Haarlem.
  • Upcoming dates 2023: (3 sessions)
    • 2/9, 16/9 en 30/9
  • Time: 10:00 - 12:30 (each session is 2 to 2,5 hours).
  • Group size: 8 people max to keep the journey as personalised as possible.
  • Language: Depending on the participants the course will be held in Dutch or English.
  • What to wear: comfortable clothes in which you can move, dance, sit, ly down.
  • Investment: 210 euro (excl 21% BTW).

Are you ready? Reserve your spot here!

If you have any more questions or would love to join but the dates don't fit. Please reach out on 06 26 404 769 or write to info@elisepattyn. nl and get notified first when a new series is launched.

Ervaringen van anderen

The workshops with Elise are amazing! They open the heart and mind with bodywork, dance, and music. I can strongly recommend it if you want to reconnect with yourself, feel your deep emotions, and understand your actions. Elise teaches you how to go deeply into your body, how to feel your body and read it like a book.
– Liza Baranyai
Een veilige sfeer met zeer professionele begeleiding en binnen korte tijd diep innerlijk werk naar een gevoel van vreugde en verbinding!
– Jill van der Veen
Een snelle leerschool over verbinding met jezelf en de ander. Ik was verbaasd over de snelheid van de inzichten, lessen en transformatie daarvan. En ik ging naar huis met grootse nieuwsgierigheid naar meer!
– Marije Maliepaaard
The workshop Touch And Be Touched is a jewel, subtle and profound. I tell you right away. Elise vibrantly inspires people to find their soul and turn the awakened energies into wonderful lives. She is going to be an international star. So, if you later on want to say I was one of those people who discovered her at an earlier stage, grab your chances and join her workshops.
– Peter van der Werff
In jouw sessies creëer je een magische flow voor een deep dive. De veilige bedding en genoeg ruimte voor terugkoppeling maakt dat ik echt de diepte in kan en durf stil te staan bij wat ik echt voel. Tuurlijk vond ik het spannend om mijzelf te openen in een groep maar voelde ook als unieke kans: eindelijk vrij spelen, oefenen, ervaren en kwetsbaar te kunnen zijn. Had niet verwacht dat juist in groepsverband zo veel meer gespiegeld wordt, maakte voor mij veel duidelijk. De dagen daarop met verrassende uitkomsten, door makkelijk “in contact” met mijzelf te blijven. Cadeautje!
– Anouk
Tijdens de workshop ervaarde ik vrijheid, vreugde, intense liefde en ik voelde me helemaal gezien als mens. Het ging stromen in mijn lichaam en gaf mij het gevoel dat ik weer ging leven. Door Elise's mooie manier van zijn als mens en haar afstemming op ons, doortastendheid, intuïtief ervaren en de stiltes, waren het magische avonden voor mij. Fantastisch om jezelf te kunnen bewegen in die hogere trilling en verbinding met mensen die je niet kent. Lichaamswerk en muziek heeft de ruimte naar mijn gevoel weer geopend.
– Alie Maliepaard